Everyone in life as experienced a break up at sometime, and a big percentage learn from their relationship mistakes and move on. However not everyone wants to do that.

What if you feel it was all your own mistakes and you want a second chance to put things right.

You want your ex back, but are you willing to do what ever it may take to change your ways, because if your not all is lost. It will take a little work to make it happen but you most likely know that already.

Pretty much all break ups can be patched up and put back together, so long as you are willing to listen to the other side of the argument. There are steps you can take to win back your ex.

The first step is simple.
What was the final nail in your relationship? If you want to get your ex back you need to take this into your mind, and think very hard about this. It will help you with preventing it happening again when you get back together. In my own relationship experiences it is mostly some type of behaviour, that your ex in all truth most likely does not want to deal with anymore.

Step 2.
Never get yourself into the situation where you seem to be in your ex partners face. This makes you look all the more gutted and needy. I know these steps are hard, but following or text massaging and calling your ex a hundred times a day will only make things worse than they already are.

Less contact at this point of the break up is a good thing. Your ex will see that you are not so devastated and your okay about the split. Begging your ex to take you back will only prolong the situation and can give out the wrong signals. Maintain high confidence if you happen to bump into your ex when you are out and about.

There are a lot more steps to follow but it would be impossible to list them all in this one article. Take the two steps above and run with them I promise you can get your ex back. I know for sure I have been there and won my ex back.