You have been worried about something ever since you and your ex parted company. Although you had a really bad argument at the time, you know for sure that you still love your ex very deeply, and want to get back together again. You have had this nagging thought though, that your ex might get involved with someone else before you have a chance to talk things over with him/her. You want to win your ex back at all costs.

It is very possible to achieve this, but there are a few things that you should consider before rushing into anything. Both you and your ex are guilty of saying some really nasty things during that argument. These things have probably caused a lot of resentment between the two of you.

If you had to get together to talk things over at this point in time, the already fragile situation would be aggravated even more. This could very well result in yet another argument between you. This of course, is no way to win your ex back.

To prevent this from happening, you should give yourself, as well as your ex, enough time to get over these bad feelings. Only once they have disappeared, will you know what your true feelings are towards each other. Then, if that deep love is still there, you will be able to talk easily with each other, and fix the problems you have.

Instead of trying to make contact with your ex at this stage, use your time to do things that really make you happy. These things will help tremendously in getting rid of any pain and anger that you might be feeling after the break up. Once they are a thing of the past, then you can do what you have to, to win your ex back.

Before trying to win your ex back, you can make sure that your ex is not involved with someone else simply by chatting to your friends. They will know for sure if your ex is dating someone else – this would be big news to them. If your friends have told you that your ex is still very much single, then grab the opportunity and do whatever you have to, to win back your ex.

Start by sending your ex a text message, just to test the waters, so to speak. If you get a positive response from your ex, then give him/her a call, and you are well on your way to win your ex back.