Men are simple creatures. They love women, food, and fun. Women of course want to keep their men happy so they do all sorts of things to manage the relationship. They might cook, clean, do favors, and of course meet his sexual needs. Some men require a bit more prodding to stay with one woman. Maybe their hormones are elevated or their eye wanders – whatever the reason, she needs to keep the passion alive, so she turns to various weapons in her sexual arsenal. The first one many women turn to would be the passion of the tongue. We’re referring to the art of dirty talking. Most women first want to learn how to talk dirty to a guy as this simple act can propel a relationship to new heights, strengthening his virility and endearing him to her for life.

However, women first need to learn how to speak dirty to a guy properly. The words we speak matters just as much as the way the words are said. Imagine the following line of dialogue being spoken with more and more emphasis being placed on the next word. It’s not a matter of going through the sentence fast, but emphasis where he knows you’re getting serious. This is a primer line – a sexual indicator – a message to him that you are horny and ready for some action.

“Your muscles turn me on.”

If you still don’t see the difference, imagine the first word “your” being said in a whisper and the last word “on” being said through clenched teeth in his ear. Do you see it now? He would be turning to kiss the girl in about three, two, and one. The motive of good dirty talk is to get him into the mood and keep him there. He should be thinking about you for the next twenty-four hours. He’ll be begging for you to come back over to him for more of your tongue action.

So what keeps him excited? Most men are the same – they love women who can turn them on and care for them at the same time. They want sex and the love, without being smothered. The passion behind the sex usually comes through talking mildly sexual to him in unexpected places. You might be walking through the grocery store and catch a glimpse of his physique. Let him know. If you have fantasies that revolve around how he looks, acts, and behaves, then let him know. Play it out in real life, but walk him through how he acts in your mind.

How to talk dirty to a guy begins with how you say things and ends with how you present those things. Sure the words coming off your tongue may seem odd at first, but if you paint a picture of the fantasy you have, then he will begin to see it too. In time, dirty talk will feel less dirty and more like talk. Give it a try. It’s sure to spice up the relationship.