Here’s an awesome technique that I came up with. Okay, I’m lying. Mystery came up with it. But it’s a great trick and it works really well when you want to learn how to attract girls. It’s called Bait, Hook, Reel, Release.

This technique works probably about 70% of them time, but before you start using it, there are some things you’ve got to understand. When you just take it out of Mystery’s theory book, it doesn’t work as-is in real life, and there are a few reasons why. The first reason is the problem with the releases, and the second is that you need a third R he doesn’t mention – Rapport.

Baiting is when you’re fishing for information. You can use a question or a statement to get this information. The mistake lots of guys make is that they ask too many questions and then it turns into a bad interview. So, let’s start with a simple one, like ‘Are you adventurous?’ Or if you want to make it a statement, you can say, ‘You seem like a really adventurous person.’

Part two is the hook. The hook is when she answers it. She takes it seriously and actually responds. Most women say ‘yes’ to that question or statement, so now you reel her in. This is where you give her a little bit of a compliment. You’re going to tell her why you like this about her.

There are two ways to do qualification. The first is to just take all these little lines and use them as-is. This is fake, though, and it won’t bring you any closer to the girls you like. Of course, it’ll get you laid if that’s all you want.

The better way of qualifying is to come up with your own list of ten non-physical qualities you like in a girl. The more personal you make it, the more it’s going to actually get you girls you’re interested in.

You don’t always need a release. Releases are there because women operate on a system of comfort thresholds. Release gives her some space so that she can pull back and make sure she’s comfortable with you.

Rapport is my addition to the system. Lots of pick up artists stink at qualifying because they don’t build rapport. They just launch into the next part of their game. Rapport means that you actually take an interest in what she says and create a real connection between the two of you, and this is the missing ingredient in how to attract girls.