Do you want to make your boyfriend love you again? Well, nothing is impossible as couples do breakup and get back together really often, but first of all you have to evaluate your situation. What is the main reason for the breakup? What type of events led to the breakup? Was it you or him or due to some third party?

Depending on the reason of the breakup, you will need to adopt different techniques to renew your boyfriend’s love for you again.

First of all, if you are the one who caused the breakup, think about what went wrong that pushed him to his limit of making the decision of leaving you. Did you do something that infuriated or disappointed him greatly? Maybe you have a possessive streak that you are unaware of and he is tired of you calling him every hour even when he is at work. Or maybe it gets on his nerves when you always demand your own way and never compromise? Then its probably time you do some self searching because a relationship cannot carry on this way, unless your boyfriend is willing to accept all these demands. You have to show him that you are sincere in changing your bad habits or character flaws before you can even make him consider getting back with you again.

On the other hand, if your boyfriend broke up with you because of another girl, then you have to show him he is not indispensable in your life. Let him know that you are accepting the breakup by not harassing him with calls or text messages. Never ever act weak in front of him, so crying and pleading for him to come back to you is a no-no. When you chance upon him with the new girl, go ahead and say hi, just like nothing happened. Show him you are strong, and have your own life to lead even without him. Imagine, you are behaving what your ex boyfriend is least expecting you to behave, and he will start wondering why. He will start to realise another side of you, that you are actually so strong mentally and he may begin to have lingering thoughts for you because of this new found admiration. So subsconciously you are making him fall for you again, isn’t that brilliant?

Look at the type of situation you are in before you decide on the strategy to make your boyfriend love you again. The phase after a breakup is not to wallow in self-pity, but to keep a cool mind and think about what you can do to save the relationship. Don’t waste your time by locking yourself in the room and refusing to eat. It is what most people do, but it does nothing constructive to win back your ex boyfriend’s love.