How to Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back With Dignity

The breakup has succeeded in lowering your self esteem and social status. You are hurt as well. You feel like crying and begging him to take you back, just because of the love you have for him. There is no reason, whatsoever, to further hurt your self-image. There is a chance you can win your ex boyfriend back and restore some dignity.

There is no need to beg and cry for him to take you back. If he dumped you, there is enough reason to be hurt and ashamed. If you broke up with him, then there is every reason to accept the fact that you made a huge mistake and ask to be forgiven. To tell you the truth, that may not be the solution of getting him back.

Let’s say he broke up with you. What is it that attracted you to him in the first place? How did you feel then? Find out what you think caused the problem. What you do, try and put all of them together and seek for a solution. What you do, show yourself off so he can see you are still the same girl he fell in love with. He needs to know that you are aware he is seeking you. If he doesn’t notice, someone else could and I don’t think it’s a bad idea, after all there are many fishes in the ocean.

Let’s say, you just had a break up with him. You now realize you made a huge mistake, let him know about it and that you are willing to make amends no matter what it takes. Let him know that he is right to be mad at you and that you don’t deserve to have him back. You will be OK if you are ‘just friends’ that is if it is OK with him. Apologize but don’t cry and beg too much to have your ex boyfriend back.

In as much as you don’t mind having him back, don’t ask to be reunited. Tell him you wish things had worked out differently. Say whatever you want to say and walk away. He will make the move if he is interested and impressed by what you did. It is not easy to admit you are wrong and also to take the consequences. You need to be strong mentally to do that. If he appreciates the effort you have put in to make the relationship work again, he would want to have you back again.

The only thing that can prevent you from not winning him back is if you have a terrible love spell. The strategy is if you want to appear attractive and make him come back to you, you need to make him want you again. It might hurt your pride if you do all these, but remember you are talking about your loved one. You need to be willing to do anything to have your ex boyfriend back, even if it has to do with keeping your ego, pride and social status aside. You need a bright future and for you to have that you must be willing to sacrifice anything good to achieve something good.