Words are powerful. You can do so much with the right words. You can make others do as you wish with the right words and a little charm. The ability to sweet-talk someone is a very special gift. Those who do this are very charming people who can almost everything they want.

The same goes with in trying to win back your e x. Sweet-talking your ex will guarantee that you’ll have your ex back in your loving arms in no time.

When you talk to them, do your best to sound as sweet and convincing as possible. But be careful not to sound like a dirty old man. Of course, there will come a time when the two of you will have to face each other and talk so you must be prepared to be the best, sweetest talker in the world.

Get rid of all the bitterness and animosity you may still feel towards your ex. Unless you are a very good actor, tinge of emotions will manifest in how you talk to your ex girlfriend so better make sure they are out of the window already.

Before you talk to her, make sure that you look and smell good. Appearance still matters. If you can make your ex turn her head towards your direction, then you have a very good shot.

Now for the moment of truth. You are face to face with your ex, chatting with her, maybe with her alone or with the company of friends. It doesn’t matter if the two of you are alone or not, what’s important is she’s comfortable talking to you even after the break up. In fact, the presence of other people will help because it will not seem awkward for the both of you to talk.

Here are the things you should watch for when talking to your ex:

Even though you’re talking about casual stuff, make sure the intonation and tone of your voice is sexy. Your ex will notice this. Girls love it when men talk to them with a sexy voice.

Do not immediately talk about the status of your relationship and your intentions of getting back with her. It may catch her off guard and become defensive. You may annoy her and make her not want to talk to you.

Keep eye contact. Girls can feel the passion emanating from you through the eyes. This won’t drive her off the edge because you are not talking about your relationship so she doesn’t have an excuse to push you away. You can be talking about sports or insects but with a very firm eye contact, you will definitely have her enthralled.

Listen to what she has to say. A good listener is a good friend. And a good friend can be a good lover. Never interrupt her when she’s saying something. Let her know that you are interested in what she says.

Sweet talking your ex is an effective way in winning them back . Those gifted with the magic of words definitely have an advantage already over the other guys. But if you follow these steps, even if you don’t have the chops to persuade people with words, you will be a certified sweet talker in no time.