Trying to win back your ex-boyfriend may seem like quite a daunting task but however not impossible. You are going to need a great amount of courage, patience, time and understanding to endure all the pressures that can be associated with saving a relationship. It will be even more difficult if your ex already is involved with another woman getting all of his attention. But if your heart still tells you to get him back despite all the obstacles in your way, it can still happen although it will require some time and effort. Hopefully the following tips will help you and give you encouragement along the way.

Evaluate. There is always a reason behind every breakup. It is wise to take some time to really take a good look at your relationship and what happened in a calm and mature way. Where and when did things start to go wrong and what was your part in it? Own up to your mistakes and learn from them and in the process grow into a better and stronger person.

Always look your best. The truth is that most men are visual creatures. They like women to be attractive and appealing, those who look good always have an advantage over those who don’t. So always make an effort to be attractive to him and remind him of the girl he fell in love with and what he found attractive about you. Make him proudly want to show you off on his arm once again.

The power of positive thinking. This is a tool far more powerful than anything else, that’s why it’s so important to have and maintain a positive attitude even when things don’t go your way. Try not to be bitter about the breakup and do not wallow in self-pity and complain about your situation, it’s very unbecoming and will not serve you. If you can’t snap out of it within a reasonable amount of time and you start feeling seriously depressed, seek professional help. Believe in yourself and that getting back with your ex is possible, because if you don’t it most likely will never happen. Be positive and enthusiastic because these qualities can produce miracles and move mountains.

Importance of self-esteem. Although you really want your ex back in your life, calling or texting him frequently or stalking him will only push him further away and might possibly make your separation permanent. Be more subtle in your attempts to win him back. Try to appear relaxed, happy and independent. Guys always like a challenge.

Drunk dialing. Never call your ex while under the influence of alcohol however tempted you might be especially if you are feeling sad and lonely. You never know what you might say, things said when under the influence could completely ruin your chances of ever getting back with your ex, so be careful.

Whatever methods you use, if your mind is set on winning your ex-boyfriend back and you really want it with all your heart and you truly feel that it’s worth fighting for – put in the time and effort and make it happen!