Men can be quite strong headed and fixed in their way of thinking. Because of this women sometimes end up doing what the man wants her to do. Sometimes that is not what she wants. So if you want to change a man’s way of thinking here are a few things that you need to do to get your way.

Avoid arguing
Arguing is always bad. No one wins, heated exchange of words leads to heart ache and no one gets their way. All it leads to is unnecessary bad blood. Since arguing puts a man on his defensive almost immediately you have to take care that when you begin to approach volatile topics you keep your tone neutral.

Don’t disregard his opinion
When he is saying something don’t brush it off even if you feel what he is saying is rubbish. Give him importance and that will make a man secure because he will think that you value his opinion. Now gradually in a very non-threatening and sweet way explain your perspective. He will listen and change his thinking process.

Be friendly when you talk
When you start talking make sure that you begin in a nice and friendly manner. When you talk in a friendly manner people invariably listen to what you have to say. That influences them favorably towards your opinion.

Be patient and listen
Always make sure that you listen patiently when your man is talking. Don’t interrupt him unnecessarily to just get in a word or give your opinion. When you let your man complete what he’s saying you are appeasing his ego. If you completely don’t agree to what he is saying simply ask him “why are you saying that?” Don’t get excited and see how well he responds to you.

Talk with reason and logic
Whenever you want a man to do something your way, you have to make sure that you talk with logic and reason. Men are defined by objectivity, logic and reasoning and when you are able to appease these he will change his way of thinking.

Do not get angry
No matter what happens if you want to change a man’s way of thinking you cannot afford to get angry. If you get angry he will get on his defensive and never change his way of thinking.

Make the man feel like it was his idea all along
The best way to get a man to change his way of thinking and getting to do something is by making him feel like the idea was his all along!