A lot of guys like to think that they are awesome at using their tongue to satisfy their woman. Usually, they are very far from giving her what she wants. There are simple secrets that can make all the difference in the world.

If you remember nothing else, keep this top of mind

The one deadly mistake that most men make is that they think that speed is the answer to driving their lover wild. When in fact, the exact opposite is true. This may not sound logical, but believe me it is 100% true. Slow licking that is repetitive in nature will get your lady going nuts. It is the continuous build up of sensual caressing that drives her insane.

You must begin with a slight bit of foreplay by licking down your woman’s thighs down to her clitoris. Use a side to side motion and not an up and down technique. Straight up and down creates a very sore tongue and you will have to stop because of fatigue.

Do not use your finger to compensate for a weak tongue

The second biggest mistake that men make is using their finger to stimulate the clitoral nerves when their mouth gives out. The difference between the stimulation that a wet mouth creates and that of a dry finger is huge. So huge, in fact, that your lady may just let out a sigh of frustration when you first alternate, because she knows that she isn’t going to be able to have a climax with a dry finger.