So you and your girlfriend broke up about a couple weeks ago and haven’t really had much communication since. You still have feelings for her and would take her back, but it seems every time you try to call it just makes the situation worse.

Now her birthday is coming up and you really don’t know what to do. Should you call your ex girlfriend on her birthday? It seems like a no win situation. If you call her too soon after the break up it might complicate the situation, but if you don’t she might think that you forgot and that leaving you was a good idea in the first place.

If you really do want your ex girlfriend back then you’re probably right about not contacting her on the phone. In this situation timing is super important. You need to give yourself some distance and also give her a chance to miss you.

You’re also right about totally ignoring her birthday, though. Instead of a phone call, send her a private message wishing her a happy birthday via a text message, Facebook or email. Some way you can just let her know you haven’t forgotten about her completely. What you don’t want to do is force her to speak with you right away, so no phone calls!

After a breakup there is always a small window of opportunity for you to reunite with your ex and it needs to be done right. Pushing to hard to make contact is the biggest and most common mistake that men make when trying to get back together with their ex girlfriend. At the same time you don’t want to wait too long and then find out that your ex girlfriend has moved on to a rebound relationship, because you waited too long.

So, when should you call your ex girlfriend? First of all you need to give her time to miss you and wonder about you. It’s during this time that you need to make yourself more attractive to her. Letting her feel like you’re desperate and lost while trying to gain her sympathy might get her to spend some time with you, but it is not the way to get her back as your girlfriend again.

The simple answer is, you shouldn’t call your ex girlfriend. Instead you need to let her call you. It sounds impossible, but it’s really a lot easier than you think. The Ex Recovery System: Get Her Back Edition will show you exactly how to make it happen. By using a few sneaky psychological tricks, you can get her to notice that you’re doing well without her and that leaving you was a mistake. It will take a little time and a lot of effort on your part, most of all you will have to play your cards right. Any woman’s feelings for an ex boyfriend do not disappear in a puff of smoke, you need to be patient, smart, and let her come back to you.