Finding out about your cheating wife is a huge blow. There is no way of getting around that. You might feel like you are down and out but your marriage isn’t down for the count – at least it isn’t yet.

You Might be Ready for Revenge on Your Cheating Wife

What is the best revenge? It’s tempting to make her pay for hurting you. I know how hurt you must be feeling right now. But, is that really the way you want to go with this?

How about revenge of a different kind? Wouldn’t it be nice if you could actually turn the tables so that your wife is begging you for a second chance and asking you to stay? You can let something other than pain and misery define your relationship.

Here’s What You Need to do to Really Turn the Tables

1) Take a break. Start by taking a little time off from the marriage. A trial separation is a good idea at a time like this because it lets you both sort through how you feel and get a little distance on emotions that may be close to boiling over.

2) Tell her goodbye. Send her a goodbye letter. Be very careful in how you word the letter. Make sure it is positive, upbeat, and even romantic. Pour out your heart to her in this letter and then tell her that you believe her interest in the other man was a sign that she’s ready to move on and you accept that. Tell her goodbye in the letter and slip it in the mail.

3) Wait for her reply. I know it is going to feel as though it is taking forever. You must wait for the mailman to deliver the letter and then wait to see how she is going to respond. It will feel like eternity but probably be much sooner than you expect.

4) Play a little hard to get. You do not want to go over the top but you definitely want her to see the error of her ways and work to get you back. Make her understand that this is a second chance and not a get out of jail free pass.

5) Start over from the beginning. This is very important. You can’t go back to the way things were. The way things were had your wife cheating with another man. That is not the direction you want to go this time around. If you go back to the beginning and start over you carry no grudges, ill will, or bad blood from the past. It’s a new beginning for both of you and your relationship. Make it count.