If you are in a relationship and you feel like your partner is not fully committed then you need to find out the reasons why. Although relationships are complex the following information should teach you how to better assess your situation. Especially, if your relationship is on the verge of break up. Commitment fear is a real issue that needs to be handled properly. The following reasons are the evils of commitment of fear!

Reason 1 – Many individuals do not want to commit 100% because they fear rejection. They suffer from poor self esteem and being rejected pushes their perception about themselves to inferior levels. You might not be aware of this, but you might be suffering from this affliction.

Reason 2 – Other individuals suffer from fear of abandonment. Somewhere in their lives someone deserted them and left them with a lot of pain. To commit their heart to somebody else is very fragile. Do you trust your heart to somebody else or do you fear abandonment?

Reason 3 – Are you scared of intimacy? Does the thought of opening up to your partner frighten you? You need to remove the “mask” and let your true feelings be known! Your life will become better if you allow intimacy into your life!

Reason 4 – Do you accept your partner for who they are? Or are you always finding faults? You could be suffering from a mindset of “too critical”. It could be that your fault finding mission is to protect yourself from your insecurities. Let your partner be who they are and I promise you a better tomorrow!

Reason 5 – Believe it or not for some individuals sex hinders a relationship, thus a show of commitment is never forthcoming. Do you feel uneasy when your partner talks about or initiates sex? Do you worry that you might not satisfy them? If that is the case, you need to learn how to accept that sex is part of any relationship and with a loving partner you can learn to become a great lover!

As you can see, there are many reasons why people might have commitment fear. The reasons are real, but the answers are within their reach. They must learn to trust themselves and they must stop pretending to be somebody else!