Alright you have just been through a break up and you want to get your ex back; don’t worry this is not as hard as it first seems. A good way of getting your ex to open up to getting back together is by using a push/pull mentality…The basic explanation behind this is the more you pull someone in the more they’ll push you away. This is probably what your ex is doing to you right now… You wanted to pull them back in so they naturally pushed you away.

In order to get back into their minds as an attractive person who is independent and has high value you are going to have to flip the pushing and pulling around… Instead of your ex pushing you away you are going to be the one pushing them away.

The first step to this is simply agreeing with the separation… Just go with it and say the old, OK lets just be friends line and go about your day. It’s important that you distance yourself from your ex because it gives them time to clear their head and just think to themselves…

If you are contacting them all of the time it just puts you in a negative light and they have no time to miss you or think about the good times that they had with you. So agree with the break up and be independent… Go hang out with friends and have fun; it’s even better if it’s with mutual friends that both you and your ex share because your ex will probably be asking about you…