As a man and a lover your most important task is to make sure your woman is sexually satisfied and make her orgasm during sex and after too. The more orgasms you give her and the more powerfully she climaxes the happier she will be.

There are a few love-making positions that increase a woman’s ability to orgasm and heighten the pleasure that both of you get. If you want to make your woman climax explosively and multiple times then experiment and find out the best position that hits the spot for her.

Women are much more receptive and willing sex partners if they are relaxed and comfortable with you. There’s no better way to make her relaxed and excited at the same time than foreplay. That doesn’t mean a quick fumble or a brisk rub. No, take your time, make the moment count, savour her body, her smell, her texture and body shape.

Linger over her erogenous zones and lick, nibble, kiss and suck where you instinctively know you should. Allow instinct to guide you. It never fails. If you permit your instinct, you’ll find yourself doing things naturally in a way that will drive her crazy. Some things come to people naturally, you don’t need to go on a course to learn these. They’re already ‘learned’ inside your mind.

Be adventurous and experiment with her. You’ll drive her crazy with lust and desire! It’s only through experimenting and being daring that you’ll discover your favourite positions, tempo and timings. Some will do nothing for you whilst others will blow her mind. Some positions can be combined and switched over or reversed. Leave your inhibitions behind and get to it.

Go for a position that allows you to penetrate her deeply. Women love deep penetration because it’s easier for her to climax. The traditional missionary position (man on top) and woman on top (cowgirl) both allow very deep penetration.

1. Missionary: She’s on her back and you’re on top of her and between her legs. Great for deep penetration and you can look into her eyes while kissing and talking to her as you move.

2. While in the missionary position, lift up her legs and slide into her from the side. You’ll penetrate her even deeper and she’ll find it easier to orgasm.

3. Doggy: The doggy position gives her the control of the speed of thrusting. She’s on all fours while you penetrate her from behind. Reach around and caress her breasts or massage her clitoris to increase pleasure for both of you.

4. Cowgirl: You lie back and allow her to straddle and sit on you. She can pace how fast and how far you penetrate her and make her orgasm. Again, reach up and tease her breasts.

5. Lotus: While you’re in the Cowgirl position sit up so you’re faces come together. Hold her tight and help her up and down as she lets you penetrate deep into her. This is a great way to make her orgasm.