Hey man,

I understand that your wife doesn’t like giving oral, that’s why you are here. No worries, I’m sure you can change her mind with some simple psychology. I’ll give you a few simple tips for getting her to give you a blow job, even if it seems hopeless at the moment.

What you have to learn is what motivates her to give blow jobs in the first place. It’s the “what’s in it for me?” question that’s spinning around in her head. If know how to make that “Why?” BIG enough, she’ll initiate giving you oral herself, so you’ll never have to beg for a blow job again. I am sure that you can actually get your wife to ENJOY giving you oral – even more than having sex. Here’s how.

a) As I said – understand what motivates her. I’ll save you the time to research this and get to the point. When a woman is REALLY attracted to you, when she feels that she WANTS and, more importantly, NEEDS You in her life – she’ll give her best to please you, including regular, passionate oral sex. That’s why your first step toward getting more oral from your wife is by becoming more attractive to her. Work out, make more money (start a business), gain a higher social status, and behave more confidently. Let her feel confidence in whatever you do. Travel. Get more power, and you’ll get more oral sex from your wife.

b) When you do what I mentioned in section a), she’ll want you and need you more, and then the “Why?” will be Bigger for her, so she’ll naturally feel that it’s not just her duty, but her NEED to satisfy you with great blow jobs. Another thing you have to do to get your wife to give you oral is to connect positive feelings in her head to BJs.

There might be something from the past that turned her off from blow jobs in general. In case she gave you regular oral before you got married or just more serious, and now she doesn’t, it’s because you took her for granted and you started behaving with less self-confidence. You got lazy. In the beginning, she could feel how much you want her, and you were giving your best to satisfy her too in bed, now you don’t. Not as much as you used to. Remember, you have to give first. When you give her amazing oral, she’ll feel like she owes you. Not only that, but she’ll also view you as more valuable and more worthy of her going through the effort of satisfying you.

Over time, this will grow into her being ADDICTED to giving you oral sex.

c) Now that you understand a bit more about what motivates a woman to give you blow jobs, I have to tell you about a simple persuasion tactic. You will get more oral from your wife when you make her feel GREAT when she has her lips and tongue all over your penis. When you get her to go down on you – moan loud, give her compliments, tell her how great it feels, look at her with fascination. When you orgasm, cuddle afterward, smile, laugh. Reward your wife after she did something that you like. I know this sounds like training a dog, well – it’s just not a dog, it’s your wife, but the principles remain simple. We are all animals, in a way, after all. After some time, she’ll create a positive connection in her brain about giving you oral.

“When I give him oral… as a result I end up feeling GREAT later” – so, the conclusion is “I should give him more blow jobs.”