So you see your ex girlfriend flirting with another guy. Most probably, she attached with this guy before she dumped you. You did almost all things to restore the broken relationship, but you failed to do so. And now you are somewhat unable to deal with the feeling of regret.

I promise that you won’t feel bad that much after finishing this article. It takes time to forget someone you used to love, but it is possible to delete her from your memory completely. Sounds impossible! No, it isn’t.

Steps on how to forget your ex girlfriend:

Step 1. Kill all the possibilities to get her back –

This sounds a little wired, but it doesn’t. If you want to delete her from your memory completely then only you should start with this step that is to kill all hopes to get her back.

It is not wise to take action based on temporary bad emotions. If you want to forget her when you see her flirting with one of your friend and you want to get her back the other time, then you should not read this article. It won’t help you.

So, if you really want to forget her then kill all the possibilities to get her back. Delete all of her videos and photographs from your computer and mobile.

Delete her number from your mobile. Don’t keep her gifts in your room. You need to get rid of them. Throw them from your room or give them to someone else.

Repeat the sentence ‘I can’t get her back and it’s over’ several times a day. Soon, you will feel better.

Step 2. Understand that she was not the perfect match for you –

Many people say that love is blind, and it is certainly true. Think about the situation when you fell in love with your ex. Do you think that she was the best person you met at that time? Probably not!

You initially knew that she was not the best person of the world and not even the best girls you came across.

It is highly possible that you liked someone else at that time, but you were unable to attract her. You felt that you were not worth for her, that’s why you settled with your ex who was the much lower option than expected.

Do you still think that she was your soul mate!

Let me tell you the truth.

She dumped you and it’s good for you, because now you are free to find your real soul mate. It’s also good that she dumped you earlier and didn’t waste more of your precious time.

Would it be good that she keeps the troublesome relationship with you for a few years more and dump you thereafter?

Step #3. Find a better girl –

No I am not saying you to be in a rebound relationship. And I am not saying you to do this step just to make your ex girlfriend feel jealous so that you can feel good. No it’s not.

I am just asking you to improve yourself, read more about dating game and raise your standard so that you can find a better replacement of your ex. After all, you don’t want to be live alone.

If you manage to attract a girl who is far better than you ex girlfriend then soon you will forget about your ex. In this situation, you won’t need to think about your ex.

People cry about spilled milk only if they are unable to buy a new bottle of milk. If they are able to buy a new bottle of milk, they won’t regret that much for the waste milk. This is how we human think. This is how psychology works. And this is how you can forget your ex girlfriend.

Step #4. Make your ex girlfriend feel that she lost someone precious –

You are feeling down now cause of your ex girlfriend, but what would happen if you find a new girl and have a cheerful relationship with her for rest of your life? In this case, would you regret or feel down when you see your ex with any other guy? Probably not!

So, pay close attention on the 3rd step and when you do it, you need to manage to send this news to your ex.

Don’t try to make her feel jealous, and don’t say these things straight to your ex via a phone call. I am against of taking revenge from an ex. But there is nothing wrong in spreading the news of your success and happiness to your ex.

To do so, you can use your common friends in a subtle way. Or, you can also use your Facebook account.

Deleting an ex girlfriend from your memory is not about repeating affirmation like ‘I am going to forget her soon’. It is all about improving your own self, getting a better replacement and then laughing at the situation in which you had a troublesome relationship with your ex girlfriend.