Are you aggressive in bed? Do you take charge when it comes to sex, or are you simply a bit more shy and reserved? And do women WANT an aggressive sexual partner, or do they prefer someone gentle, soft and sensual? In this article we are going to take a quick and insightful look at what women really want when it comes to a passion partner…and how MUCH aggressiveness is (or is not!) a turn on. Curious to know more? Great…..continue reading as we take a closer look below!

Okay but don’t women prefer a man with a “slow hand”? I thought most women really want a gentle lover?

The truth? It’s impossible to generalize! All women have different tastes when it comes to what they want in bed, and aggressiveness, or the lack thereof is NO exception. But the truth is, there ARE universals…and things that more women than NOT admit to being a turn on, and an aggressive lover happens to be one of them!

What does aggressive in bed really mean? How can I tell if I’m aggressive or not?

Honestly, aggressive simply means you are assertive sexually. You take the lead. You know what you want. You are direct….and take control. To be honest with you, MANY women rate an assertive, commanding and passionately POWERFUL man one of the biggest turn on’s there is between the sheets…..EVEN if she doesn’t seem the type that would!

This is pretty interesting, too.

Want to know who REALLY seems to love an aggressive man in bed? Aggressive WOMEN…..out of bed! Yes, it’s true…when they do sexual surveys and personality tests about turn cons’ and turn offs…..many women who LOVE being in control OUT of bed…truly crave and desperately desire a powerful and assertive men, IN bed. Many of these sorts of successful women also fantasize about being dominated sexually by an aggressive lover, which I always find to be super sexy, and really fascinating as well! (sex always is such a surprise…that you NEVER really know what someone is truly like until you get them in the sack.